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Post by hotpants on Mar 5, 2008 20:49:23 GMT -5
fellow atdi friends, i need your input. how long should one wait before asking a girl, that just got out of a long term relationship, out? she went out with this guy for like 2-3 years, and they ended it like 1-2 months ago.
-hotpants
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Post by Evycakes on Mar 5, 2008 23:47:05 GMT -5
i would say it depends on the girl .... my cousin was going out with this fellow for about 2-3 years .. her high school sweetheart ... within a week she was seeing a new guy ... it all depends on why they broke up too ... my cousin's ex got to the point where he was completely unbearable to her ... it really all depends per situation id say
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Post by soniktruth on Mar 6, 2008 0:16:18 GMT -5
if she says yes. be prepared for nothing serious
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Post by Evycakes on Mar 6, 2008 0:26:18 GMT -5
..... my cousins been going out with the guy she was seeing for almost 2 years now .... im gonna stick to .. it differs per situation
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Post by hotpants on Mar 6, 2008 21:56:49 GMT -5
yeah, i dont know. i'm just going to see what happens, and go with the flow. a group of us are going bowling tomorrow. hotpants won't let you down. i used to bowl league. yeah, i'm rad like that.
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Post by Evycakes on Mar 6, 2008 23:02:42 GMT -5
haha right on ... usually when i bowl strikes they are a fluke.... and that is often!!
good luck!
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Post by MercurySolo on Mar 7, 2008 16:15:55 GMT -5
I'd say now's at least the time to ease into the picture if you want to pursue her. You could probably tell whether she wants to have fun, be in a relationship, both, or needs time to think about everything that's happened in her life. There is the danger that it might end up being a rebound relationship, so keep that in mind if you want more than that.
On the other side of the fence, my current girlfriend was in a bad relationship for 2-3 years, and after getting out of it, it was about 3 months before we started going out, and it's been 7 years now. I guess it just all depends on the person.
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Post by hotpants on Jan 11, 2009 22:31:32 GMT -5
hotpants was reatarded. this girl totally fucked him up. it was bad. she was not a nice girl. things are well now due to the aid of friends, pabst, atari, lucero and two cow garage.
should have followed my instincts, and not gotten involved...on the other hand, i've got "notebooks scattered all over my floor...six hundred pages filled with regrets and hundreds of songs that ain't finished yet "
fuck this year is going to be crazy awesome
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Post by soniktruth on Jan 12, 2009 21:34:37 GMT -5
YES. 2009 will be the best...financially and romantically...................kudos on the new name brother man!!!!
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Post by Evycakes on Jan 13, 2009 3:56:31 GMT -5
i like everyones optimism!!! keep it up!!
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Post by brian on Jan 16, 2009 20:33:03 GMT -5
YEAH!&^*$%
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